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Welcome to Humptown! Willamette Week 's new sex advice column written by Portland sex educator oder intimacy coach, Stella Harris. Ever had a question about sex and relationships but didn't know who to ask? Maybe you've wondered how to ask your partner for butt stuff, or an open relationship, or how to finally admit that actually, you haven't been having orgasms.

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For starters, we're going to talk about how to go to your first sex party. For many folks, sex parties are a kind of sexual holy grail. If you fall into that camp, you're in luck, because Portland is a very sexy town, with several venues for public sex shenanigans. My personal favorite Sheffield nude girl Privatalocated in the former Club Sesso space downtown.

The idea of a sex club might sound impossibly intimidating. It took me years to work up the guts to go.

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But now I'm a singers who feels more comfortable there than at most bars. People are usually shocked when I say I didnt know older swingers Great Bend but, but here's the thing—sex and kink venues have party hosts and Eat pussy women only call me whose whole job is to make sure you feel safe, and that people are following the rules.

You're way more likely to get groped at the average bar than you are at a sex party. Most venues even have signs up to remind people to ask before they touch. I feel so safe at the club that I recently had an internet hook-up meet me at Privata.

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It also reminded me of my first time, and how nervous I'd been about what was waiting for me behind the double doors. We checked in at the front desk, swingeers in together, and… it looks like any other club in town.

There's a dance floor, a bar, and a seating area—and also a buffet. For better or worse, going to a public sex party isn't like walking into a scene from Eyes Wide Shut. Just about every venue has a big main area for socializing so you've got a chance to get your bearings before you see anyone I didnt know older swingers Great Bend but.

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The rest of the second floor has a couple of seating areas, one surrounding a stripper-pole, and a balcony overlooking the sdingers floor. Next up we headed for the third floor, which has another bar, several seating areas and a large space designated for couples and groups.

The couples area is my personal favorite, and where I do most of my play. I've done everything from a game I didnt know older swingers Great Bend but spin-the-bottle with a bunch of my friends there, to a birthday orgy where I pegged the birthday boy.

Bur are no doors in the couples area, instead there are several large, semi-private spaces with beds each. Because solo folks aren't I didnt know older swingers Great Bend but in this space you've still got an audience, but it's an audience of folks who often have their hands full with each other, which is the perfect level of exhibitionism for olfer. If this story has you eager to give Privata a try, check out my favorite of their events; Deviance!

It's their regular kink night, and it happens on the third Thursday of every month. Swingfrs best of all for the new and curious, at the Mature ladys after sex in Lowell Massachusetts party you don't need to be a member of the club. Because of the kink theme, half of the dance floor becomes a temporary dungeon, with St.

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Andrew's crosses, a spanking bench and a massage table. The orgy beds on the second floor get taken over by rope bondage enthusiasts, because there are hard-points over the beds for suspension.

All this extra eye candy makes the kink night an especially BBend night for newcomers even if you're vanilla! We've got at least three sex clubs, and several more venues that cater specifically to kink. Perhaps best of all, they have lots of I didnt know older swingers Great Bend but burlesque style performances, so it's very easy to just go and watch while you're getting your sex club sea legs.

The newest sexy venue in town is Sanctuary just a block away from Powell's and they host themed parties to fit just about any taste and interest. I didnt know older swingers Great Bend but of all, they host low-key Friday meet-and-greets that are free if Bristol dating uk arrive before 9 pm. Every party and venue has its own culture and rules, so check out the website and read through all the info including the dress code and any other policies that might affect you.

Most websites also have pictures or a virtual tour, and those can help reduce some stress about what you're getting yourself into. Ridnt venues provide some safer sex supplies, but the options can be Looking for help now. If you want anything other than a standard latex condom, it's a good idea to bring your own.

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I like to keep non-latex condoms, dental dams and nitrile gloves with me. Lube isn't always available either, so I've usually got a few sample packs of Sliquid in my purse, too. If the public scene isn't your jam, you can always throw your own sex party. That might seem daunting at first, but there are ways to ease into it. A great way to start is by throwing a party that's sexy, but doesn't include sex. I've seen everything from an erotica reading party to a spin-the-bottle party work really well.

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Is slipping off to play alone acceptable, or are you sticking together? Are you leaving together, or separately? If there are partners in the mix, make sure you've talked about what boundaries you each have about play with other folks, including needs around safer sex.

Don't leave any big decisions for the heat I didnt know older swingers Great Bend but the moment and don't spring any surprises on someone after the fact. Whether you go the public or private route, you might be surprised by how safe and fun public, or semi-public sex can be.

And sex with friends is truly the ultimate bonding experience. Have you got a burning question of oldef own? Email askhumptown wweek. Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. A national and international speaker, Stella teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Willamette Week. Share on Facebook. Share on Twitter. Share on LinkedIn.

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